Love

November 20, 2009 - Welcome Guest!

Heartbroken? Obsessed? In Love? Turn to La Chaise Longue - a collection of professional counsellors' insightful answers to questions posed by visitors.

Find a response that relates to you and your life, or submit a new question.


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	New • Teen Dating Someone Older • Moving On • The Next-door Single Lady • Bottling Things Up • Questions	Top Five • Deeply in love with a married man • Do I love him too much? • How do I make him love me again? • I care for my wife but love another woman • I am feeling too insecure

Complete List of Questions

	• "...And in the left corner, the right side of the brain" • Acting my age • All in the family • Alone and confused • Am I being cruel to her? • Am I crazy or is he? • Am I overreacting? • Am I wrong? • Bottling Things Up • Bringing ourselves back together • Can I trust him? • Cheating

	• Clean house, perfect marriage? • Closeted gay woman attracted to fundamentalist Christian • Cold feet • Completing the separation • Confusion • Continuous Cycle of Compromise • Custodial Parent Problems • Deeply in love with a married man • Degeneration of a marriage • Did he leave me because of the abortion? • Do I call or not? • Do I Dare?

	• Do I love him too much? • Do I stay or do I go? • Do I stay or go? • Do therapists really have feelings of warmth and caring toward their patients? • Does love change? • Don't want to run away from love anymore • Downturn in love • End of the road? • Failed attempt at marriage • Fallen out of love • Feeling stuck • Fiancée's past relationships

	• First Boyfriend • Getting dumped • Ghosts of the past • Guilty of Jealousy • Handling his jealousy • Happily married...but cheating • He doesn't want children, but I do. • He left me and I'm falling apart • He loves me but doesn't understand me • He wants her to find a new partner for sex! • Heartbroken Forever? • Help

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How can I ask someone out?

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How can you tell a ghost from a real threat?

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How do I break the pattern?

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How do I make him love me again?

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How do I win his heart?

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How to get an ex-husband to move out?

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How to proceed with life?

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I am feeling too insecure

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I care for my wife but love another woman

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I feel like my husband's servant

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I hate the sight of him!

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I want my abusive boyfriend back

	• I want to work it out! • I'll fly, fly away... • I'm tired of waiting • I've got a crush on my shrink! • If it's so wrong, why does it feel so right? • Is an affair healthy? • Is he looking to have an affair? • Is it really me? • Is it too late? • Is jealousy distinct from hatred? • Is there really such a thing as love? • Is this my fault?

	• Justification for leaving? • Keeping his lie • Late bloomer • Later Bloomer • Lonely for life • Looking for love in all the wrong places • Love between people of very different ages • Low self-esteem after divorce • Marriage is hard work • Missing my girl • Money controls her relationship • Moving On

	• My boyfriend's girlfriend • My Husband Had an Affair With One of Our Coworkers • My husband is ashamed of my weight • My husband won't stop interrupting me • My Wife Has Left Me • Need Commitment • Nervous • No hope left? • No rest for the nag • Philosophical Thoughts • Pre-marital cheating • Question of trust

	• Questions • Rejected again... • Relationship deadline • Revenge • Scared to death • Secret • Sense and sensibility... • Should I be concerned? • Should I lay my cards on the table? • Should I or Shouldn't I? • Should I stay or should I go? • Should I take it or leave it?

	• Should I tell him? • Single mother by design? • Smothering jealousy • So Alone • Stressed • Talking to God about jealousy • Teen Dating Someone Older • The Girl That Can Dream But Can't Choose • The Next-door Single Lady • To cheat or not to cheat? • To Marry or Not to Marry • Too much porn?

	• Toxic marriage • Vision of love is tainted • Volatile relationship • Waiting for commitment I • Waiting for commitment II • We have nothing in common! • What is love? • What is wrong with my relationship? • What's in a number? • When is it ok to start over? • Where do I go from here? • Why am I attracted to the past?

	• Why am I jealous if I'm not a jealous person? • Why can't I feel love? • Why does it have to be big? • Wrong Guy